Filipinos have long grappled with the question: Is it time for divorce in the Philippines to be legalized? Well, the answer might be inching closer because the House of Representatives has approved, on second reading, House Bill 9349, or the Absolute Divorce Act. There’s still a long road ahead, but it might be good to unpack why we need to legalize divorce.

It protects people from abusive marriages

No one enters marriage hoping for failure. Yet, some people suffer abuse or violence despite giving their all to keep the relationship afloat. That’s where a strong divorce law comes in. It simplifies getting out of a toxic marriage, much like the no-fault divorce system in the US, where neither party needs to prove fault in court.

It protects the well-being of children

Kids are the most affected when couples go through a rough patch. It’s even worse for them to see their parents fight. While a divorce law won’t magically make families happier, it can establish provisions prioritizing their best interests on custody, child support, and visitation arrangements. 

It reinforces the value of marriage

The existence of annulment and divorce laws reminds couples that marriage isn’t a walk in the park. It takes hard work – open communication, genuine love, and a lot of understanding.

It reduces the stigma surrounding failed relationships

Sticking it out forever sounds poetic, but the reality is some marriages end up falling apart. There’s a lingering stigma, especially among women, that life is over after a marriage fails when it’s the opposite. Having a divorce law teaches us that it’s okay to press reset — to heal and grow without the pressure of forcing something that isn’t working anymore. 

It gives people an alternative to annulment

The annulment process in the Philippines is crazy expensive and may take years before both parties can legally go their separate ways. Shouldn’t we expand options for marital dissolution instead of sticking to an option that’s accessible to only a select few? 

It reduces informal separations

Without legal divorce, couples just go their separate ways without formalizing it, resulting in complicated issues such as property rights, inheritance claims, and child support. By legalizing divorce, people have a clear and fair process to follow rather than resorting to informal arrangements.

It embraces progress

The Philippines is the only country in the world, aside from Vatican City, that doesn’t allow divorce. Need we say more about the need for progressive laws? Times are changing, and our lawmakers must recognize that religion and our Constitution should be kept separate. We need laws that reflect the realities of Filipinos, regardless of religion.

It encourages respect for personal choice

You’re not in favor of divorce? That’s fine. Nobody’s forcing you to get a divorce, but at the very least, respect those who need that option. Don’t judge people for doing what’s right for their situation because not all marriages are cut from the same cloth. Live and let live.

Do you think it’s time for us to pass a divorce law?

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