Boasting projected earnings of an astounding billion dollars, it’s no surprise why “The Eras Tour” is the concert on everyone’s lips and prayers right now. The fight for tickets is a bloodbath, which makes you ponder if the universe plays favoritism because of the exasperating struggle to get a freaking seat! Case in point: The Eras Tour Singapore. Millions queued to get tickets, and most of them were left in the dust. In case you’re still licking your wounds, here are some things you can do to make yourself feel better.

Watch Taylor’s live performances online

This one’s easy and won’t shrink your bank account to the size of a peanut. Thanks to the internet, Taylor has tons of binge-worthy live performances to keep you sane while others are busy deciding what outfit to wear to the concert and you’re stuck in your living room.

If you still have more tears to shed *~ahem~* we mean more time to spare — watch Taylor’s performances while waving a lightstick and all glammed up with merchandise collection as if you’re a walking billboard. Think of this experience as the affordable luxury of staying at home.

Stream her songs

If watching Taylor’s performances sting, jamming non-stop to her songs is a great alternative. It’s a good thing Speak Now (Taylor’s Version) dropped just in time to dull the disappointment of not getting tickets. Remember to only play tracks from the Taylor’s Version albums, okay? Don’t also forget to keep boxes of tissue on standby just in case you start crying in pails of tears.

Attend local Taylor Swift fan events

Good thing there are talented drag entertainers like Mac Coronel, aka Taylor Sheesh, who’s doing heaven’s work to bring Taylor’s spirit to countless devoted Swifties. Since her viral “Eras Tour” performance, she’s expanded her reach to delight audiences in even more locations. Events like these are just the start, so keep yourself open to unforgettable experiences ahead.

Host your own Taylor Swift-themed party

Imagine a Taylor Swift extravaganza with bright, glitzy interiors inspired by her most iconic music videos and attendees dressed in Taylor’s past eras. As for food and drinks, take it up a notch by naming them after her hits like Bad Blood BBQ, Shake It Off Milkshake, or You Belong With Meat. Then everyone caps off the night by singing and dancing to Taylor’s discography (of course, from only Taylor’s Version albums).

Go to other concerts or music festivals

Alright, we get it. TS is your all-time favorite artist to infinity and beyond, and attending her concert will add a hundred more years to your lifespan. But maybe, just maybe, it’s also worth checking out other local artists or city music festivals you’ve never heard of. Sure the experience won’t probably be the same, but your support can help the local music scene to keep on thriving.

Participate in fan projects or initiatives

Just because you didn’t score a ticket to “The Eras Tour” doesn’t mean you have to go through it alone, okay? There are countless Swfitie online groups to join, so watch out for any upcoming projects that’ll keep you as occupied as Taylor’s tour calendar.

Write Taylor a letter

It doesn’t matter if your fan letter rivals a dissertation on why you think TS is the best artist of all time, just let Miss Americana know what you feel, and she’ll understand. Maybe try to wrestle insider scoop, too, if there are more “The Eras Tour” stops? Because we’re really trying here.

And if all else fails…

Stay at home, resist the urge to look at “The Eras Tour” fancams on social media, and voila! You may have just unlocked the miraculous spell to feel better, at least for now.