An Introvert’s Guide to Surviving Social Gatherings

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An Introvert’s Guide to Surviving Social Gatherings

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| December 1, 2017

An Introvert’s Guide to Surviving Social Gatherings

By Kyzia Maramara

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Holidays are coming up and there are probably more events you’re going to get invited to in this season than the rest of the year. But don’t get anxious! You got this, yeah?

It’s terribly easy to fall back into the routine of declining all those invitations to go out or canceling last minute because you just don’t feel like going out, but now is not the time to settle with this attitude! After all, it’s 2017 and you’re bound to know that anything can happen in 2017, including you eventually becoming an extrovert.

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But before you get to that stage you have to take baby steps first and survive the 2017 holidays. Now there’s going to be a lot of strangers in these parties or estranged relatives but who cares? You’re going to survive this! And we’re going to help you.

1. Prepare for the gathering beforehand

If you know you’ll be interacting with a lot of people and you need strength for it, go to a quiet place and soak up the peace and solidarity. Relax so you can be your best at the party.


2. Remember that you’re not obliged to make conversation with everyone

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Don’t pressure yourself to speak to everyone; it’ll only make you anxious. Instead, keep in mind that the journey of an introvert to becoming sociable is taken one step at a time. If you had a conversation with only one new person, then that’s good! It’s a start.


3. Bring an extroverted friend and stick to them like glue

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The golden rule: Bring Your Own Extrovert. If it makes you all the more comfortable, make a pact with them that they will not under any circumstances leave your side. Extroverted friends help generate conversation and all you have to do is nod in relief.


4. Come prepared with possible topics to start conversations with

It might sound funny but coming prepared with a conversation goes a long way. You can start with the generic small talk about how the food tasted or the weather outside. You can also steer the conversation toward travel, pets, and jobs, its guaranteed to make people talk and you can just ask the questions.